Some of us not only love been dressed a woman but like male company too & been given a good f%&*ing etc.. adds excitement & pleasure into the mix.

This isn’t anything particular to crossdressing, had it been something else like Joanne playing video games for the entire day every day or browsing twitter/facebook/social media for hours on end, and their wife didn’t approve of video games or social media binging, and Joanne had acted in the same way towards their wife that they have done so over crossdressing, very likely their marriage would still have ended.

I hope that Joanne learned from this incident to balance their own interests with the interests of their future romantic partner/spouse in a future relationship. Otherwise they’ll never maintain relationships for a long period of time.