Comments on: Caught Crossdressing by Wife

By: Jesse

Jesse — Tue, 21 Mar 2023 17:51:25 +0000

In reply to hans Buchner. Me 😘😘

By: jamieroper

jamieroper — Wed, 27 Jul 2022 08:10:00 +0000

great story

By: Susan James

Susan James — Sat, 23 Apr 2022 22:24:03 +0000

Hey there! Thanks for sharing your experience as life changing as it must have been. I too have been crossdressing since my youth. When my older sister would have her friends over I would sneak her panties and bras to wear. Once she caught me in her room with her panties on and just gave me that look that I knew meant I would have to do as I was told. When her girlfriends came over she would playfully tell her friends that I was the little sister she never had. I did everything I was asked out of fear that she would reveal my dirty little secret.
She began helping me with my crossdressing and taught me how to do my own makeup and nails. She would offer me to her friend who was a cosmetology student for practice. She would video and take pictures of everything.
When I went to college I did not have the opportunity to dress until I was able to get an apartment with one of my sisters friends who was living in the same city. When my sister found out who my roommate was she sent pictures and video to both of us and said to have fun. And fun we did have. We took things to the next level. Dressing up and going out together to parties and bars. Staying in makeup and women’s clothes whenever I was at home. She even took me to her salon for pampering, hair removal, eye brows and acrylic nails
I went with her to her doctor and was started on hormones which did wonders with mood and skin. As I started to develop I knew there was no turning back. Firm breasts with perky nipples. Silky smooth skin. Polished nails and pouty lips as well as shoulder length hair.
We are still together and enjoy a loving, playful and respectful relationship. And who would have thought that this was all because of my sister and a pair of her panties.

By: hans Buchner

hans Buchner — Mon, 10 Jan 2022 14:58:23 +0000

hello,, yes i have been crossdressing for many years. my special interest is nylon
lingerie, bras, girdles, corsets and high heels. Once dressed like this I feel very girlie
and submissive. Would love to talk to others who my be interested,will send photos if you like.
sissy, Hans

By: rich

rich — Mon, 25 Oct 2021 16:43:17 +0000

In reply to Tommy. my wife caught me wearing her panties she really didnt protest so i kepped it up.needless to say she divorced me.

By: Tommy

Tommy — Tue, 31 Aug 2021 21:47:09 +0000

Thank you so much for sharing. I had a similar story but it was much more connected to my gender identity. I got caught at a young age (about 9) trying on my mom’s makeup and she threatened to parade me up and down the neighborhood in it if I ever did it again. So like you, I hid my crossdressing periodically throwing away my stash for years even after I married the most amazing woman. All of it was complicated by the fact that we both grew up in very conservative and religious homes and I was even a minister for a while.

A couple of weeks ago, she discovered my latest “stash”. I did not know she found it and when we went to bed that evening, she left the light on. I knew something was up but not what it was. She sat up in bed and said “can we talk about your stash I found”? I was terrified. For a while I just sat there in silence and was surprised at how patient she was. I finally confessed about my struggles with my gender identity and how I had been crossdressing secretly for years even after we were married.

In the end, she was relieved. She had found strands of red hair from my wigs (she is brunette) and other items for years and was afraid I was cheating on her ( she is my life and I never once thought of cheating nor was I attracted to men). I apologized so many times and was really taken aback when she said “hey, this is part of who you are and it’s OK”. I am still overwhelmed by how understanding she has been.

We are still working through this day by day and while my wife understands that if I could, I would fully transition, I also understand that she is not attracted to women and my relationship with her is the most important thing in my life. I have been wearing women jeans and other more unisex items for some time and she is comfortable with me wearing feminen underwear and more feminine styles in public and even experimenting with makeup and dressing up when I am home alone (I work from home and she commutes), but not ready for me to fully dress up in front of her or pursue any physical transition at this point.

Your story really struck home with me and has helped me as my wife and I work through all of this.