Read the lovely interview of fabulous crossdresser Sofia Valham!
“My wife understands that Sofia is part of me.”
Q: Sofia, what does your wife really think about your cross-dressing?
Sofia: She’s incredibly supportive. She respects it and knows it’s part of who I am — not a separate person, just another side of me. Having her understanding means the world. It allows me to be completely open and comfortable being Sofia.
“Confidence comes from feeling good inside and out.”
Q: Are you still keeping up with your gym routine?
Sofia: Definitely! Fitness helps me stay confident in my body. It’s not about perfection — it’s about feeling strong, balanced, and proud of who I am, whether I’m dressed in gym gear or a full glam look.
Q: Can you tell us a bit about wigs?
Sofia:Absolutely! A good-quality wig really makes a difference. It can completely transform your look and boost your confidence. Investing in a well-made wig not only helps it look more natural but also makes it more comfortable to wear. Whether you prefer synthetic or human hair, choose something that feels right for you — that’s what matters most.
Q: What would you say to cross-dressers who only dress at home?
Sofia: Enjoy it! Feeling feminine is one of the most wonderful parts of the experience. Every situation is different, of course, but if you feel comfortable sharing this part of yourself with your family, they’ll often surprise you with their understanding and support. It’s always better to be yourself than to hide away.
If you’re feeling more confident, go shopping and treat yourself to some women’s clothes. Don’t let fear stop you from expressing who you are.
If you’re unsure about going out in public, try connecting with local cross-dressing or transgender support groups. Talking to others who understand your experience can make a huge difference — they can offer great advice, encouragement, and friendship. And remember, it’s always better (and more fun!) to go out with others than alone.
“Cross-dressing is art — and autumn is my favourite palette.”
Q: What kind of fashion are you loving now that it’s October?
Sofia: Autumn fashion is perfect for experimenting — layering, mixing fabrics, and playing with rich colours. I’m loving oversized blazers, faux leather skirts, and boots. Cross-dressing in the cooler months means more textures, more style, more fun!
“Details matter — especially nails.”
Q: Nails are a big part of your look. Any favourite styles right now?
Sofia: I love elegant almond-shaped nails, usually a glossy nude or soft pink with a bit of shimmer. Sometimes I go bold with a dark wine shade for nights out. The smallest detail can make you feel instantly more feminine and put-together.
“Start the day simple — stay sharp for the sparkle.”
Q: What’s your go-to breakfast?
Sofia: I keep it light — fruit and a boiled egg. It keeps me energised without feeling heavy. And I never skip my morning coffee — that’s essential glamour fuel!
“Balance is everything.”
Q: Do you drink?
Sofia: I do, but only socially. It’s something I enjoy when I’m out with friends or celebrating an event. Everything in moderation — I think balance in life is really important.
“Social media attention is lovely — but I stay humble.”
Q: You’ve become quite popular online. How do you deal with the attention?
Sofia: I take it with calmness and gratitude. It’s nice when people appreciate your style or confidence, but I try to stay humble. The messages I get from people saying I’ve inspired them to be themselves — that’s what really keeps me going.
“If I can inspire one person to feel beautiful, that’s enough.”
Q: You’ve become a role model to other cross-dressers. How does that feel?
Sofia: It’s an honour. I never set out to be a role model — I just wanted to be myself. But if my confidence or openness helps someone else start their own journey, that means everything to me. Cross-dressing is about expression, freedom, and joy. Everyone deserves to feel that.
“The Glam Girls scene is evolving — and so am I.”
Q: You’ve stepped back from DJing with Glam Girls — what’s next?
Sofia: Yes, I’m focusing more on promoting and booking entertainment now. I love helping create nights that celebrate diversity and self-expression. It’s not just about the music — it’s about community. That’s what Glam Girls is all about.
“Glamour isn’t a look — it’s a feeling.”
From morning coffee to glittering club nights, Sofia Valham proves that cross-dressing is more than fashion — it’s freedom, creativity, and courage. With style in her step and kindness in her heart, she continues to inspire others to live proudly and beautifully — just as they are.
Follow Sofia on Instagram: @sofia.valham
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