▶ Femme Name: Patty Lee
▶ Location: France
▶ How long you have been crossdressing : My first memories date back to adolescence when I borrowed my mother’s silk stockings. 50 years ago when crossdressing was very complicated. I am 62 years old and my first memories date back to adolescence when I borrowed my mother’s silk stockings. It was an extraordinary feeling.
▶ Say something about your crossdressing experience: The older I get, the more I want to dress and look like the women I love. All my life, I’ve been secretly cross-dressing. I came out to my wife only 1 year ago. She accepted and I thought the game was won. But it got complicated when she saw that it was getting too big. Today, I am in a transitional phase.
▶ Reason you crossdress: It’s hard to explain why I cross-dress. I love everything that makes a woman beautiful: makeup, lingerie, dresses, skirts, heels, and what a joy to see yourself as a woman in the mirror. I am and will remain heterosexual all my life. I have no rational explanation for the origin of this need. I love myself as a man, but cross-dressing is an immeasurable feeling.
▶ Things you like doing after getting dressed: I never went out as a girl. So, I stay at home to make the most of the well-being that comes from feeling like a woman to the core.
▶ Your favorite outfits/style: I don’t have a special style. I like to be the most elegant woman possible, but not too vulgar. I love showing off my legs with heels, stockings or tights and short skirts or dresses. I really like lingerie and black outfits.
▶ Where do you buy your clothes/makeup/shoes from: I buy exclusively online, either on cheap sites or on second-hand sites.
▶ How long does it take you to get ready: Dress up and make up provide real excitement. So I take the time to perfect the smallest details..
▶ Instagram: @pattyleefemme
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Very, very nice! You make a lovely woman Patty Lee. I am also in my early 60s and began dressing when I was 5 but just with my grandmother or my mother. I started going out dressed, pretending I was in costume, when I was 12. I just loved dressing sexy and loved getting the boys excited! You look great and I’m so happy for you!
Thank you Charlotte. For me, this is different because I have always been (and still am) a real “guy” who likes women. When I’m Patty, I’m another person who doesn’t think about sex.
You’re welcome and I understand about being a real ‘guy’. I tried being a ‘real man’ and even married a woman but it was hard and I couldn’t satisfy her very well. It took me over 30 years but I finally came out and I’m finally happy. I still think of the thrill when I was young and even to this day I still feel a thrill every time.
Glad you found your happiness
Like dressing iup
You are beyond beautiful and I have a hard time understanding why you don’t allow yourself to go out like this. I myself have been cross-dressing for more than 25 years and I share all your experiences.
Thank you for these very kind words. I don’t go out because I’m not sure I want to and I think it would be very difficult. Photos taken from the front and from a certain angle are flattering. I don’t retouch them but I take the best shots.
You look FABULOUS Patty, especially for 62!
I take inspiration from your story as, at 53 I am still closeted but trying to find the courage to come out into the world.
Thanks for sharing your story.
It’s a pleasure to share these photos. I congratulate you for daring to come out. I will never have this strength. I am content with my closed doors.