Why won’t she?

Two days after she caught him dressed, Gary told Samantha that he had never told anyone about his crossdressing and that he wanted to tell her but the fear he felt was just too paralyzing. That day they went out to go shopping for his own lingerie. Gary is just a little taller, and has a slightly bigger waist than she is. They act like they are shopping for her, but she is shopping for him. A middle aged woman who is some sort of manager walks and ask them if they need help as she hands her a business card. Samantha thanks her, but before she can say she has it, looks at the card and its a graph of men’s sizes and the corresponding woman’s lingerie sizes. Samantha looks back at the mamager. The manager tells her the secret is safe with her, and that her husband is “one” too.
Alice and her husband Mike become their first friends who “know”. Gary is relieved that he finally has a friend to talk to about crossdressing.
Gary opens up fully to Samantha now that the fear is gone. Samantha appreciates their closer relationship. She has important news to tell him tomorrow.
To be continued or maybe not.

He starts to turn to her to ask a question, but seems to have anticipated it as she assures him that would still have married him if she knew beforehand.

They start making plans on how life will progress from here.

i agree with you i wouldnt want to change back