▶ Femme name: Amy
▶ Location: California, USA
▶ How long you have been crossdressing : About 20 years on and off, since I was about 12-14.
▶ Say something about your crossdressing experience: My journey was filled with confusion, shame and eventually self acceptance. I live regular life as a pansexual male but have always had the desire to be more feminine in a world where it’s historically frowned upon.Thankfully that’s slowly changing as we find each other online.
I recently came out to my female partner of 14 years and posted notes I used to have that conversation. It’s from my POV and details my journey, if you’re interested it can be found here: https://allaboutcd.com/how-i-told-my-partner-about-the-crossdressing-side-of-me/
▶ Reason you crossdress: In my 30s, I’ve found the ticking clock of life forces you to re-evaluate the truths of your inner desires. I started posting online in July 2021 and the response from the community has been really encouraging (sans a few overly aggressive accounts that I block without hesitation). Over the past 2 years I’ve stopped purging clothes and started to collect really nice stuff, I currently own about 10 dresses and 7 pairs of shoes.
I’d say the reason now is a mixture of mostly personal enjoyment and external validation as I’ve been building a social following.
▶ Things you like doing after getting dressed: Dressing up is a s*xually charged desire for me, so it goes away if I’m not in the mood. Having it sexually charged means I come in and out of it really fast, so it’s been historically hard to not label it as a strange kink I have to hide from the world. My struggle with that labelling has mostly gone away but still lingers.
▶ Your Favorite outfits/ style:I’m always thinking about and looking for new outfits/styles to try; whether that’s a cute pink baby girl look or a darker latex and bondage one. I find it fun to play around and lean into different feminine personas.
Thanks for the interview, I’m proud to be a part of the crossdressing community and wish all you reading this the best with your journey 🤍
▶ Social Links: https://linktr.ee/amybabygirl8